Each Father’s Day we are given the opportunity to step back and give thanks to all of the wonderful fathers and father figures in our lives. The holiday often creeps up on us, and we rush to find a way to make the celebration special. This year, make the most of Father’s Day and show the dads in your life how grateful you are for all they do. Whether you are celebrating your husband, grandfather, dad, stepdad, or your friendly neighbor, read on for inspiration on how you can make this Father’s Day special for everyone.
Remembering those we’ve lost… Fathers Day can be especially difficult for those of us who have lost father figures in our lives. Instead of keeping to yourself on Fathers Day after losing someone, consider how you can celebrate those you’ve lost and keep their memory alive. Take a moment to remember all of the joy they brought into your life. We’ve included a few ideas below you may wish to try:
Write a Father’s Day card.
If you could speak to him one last time, what would you say? Take a moment to write a Father’s Day card. It can be a cathartic experience for you and remind you of the love you shared.
Share a favorite memory with others.
Are there any sweet moments or memories of your lost loved one you hold dear? Share it! Sharing stories of those we love who we have lost keeps their memory alive and spreads the joy they brought us to others in our life.
Enjoy their favorite activities.
Just because he is gone doesn’t mean he is forgotten! Did your dad or father figure have a favorite ice cream shop he loved to visit or a sports team he rooted for? Consider what brought him joy and experience their favorite things today in their honor.
Write a note.
A thoughtfully written note is sometimes the gift we need most. Next time you are at the grocery store, browse the card aisle and find one that makes you smile. Then carve out time to think about what your father means to you and share!
Carve out quality time with dad.
As many of us know, the most valuable thing we have to give is our time. Let the dads in your life know how much you value the time you spend with them. Plan an activity doing something you love together one-on-one. You can watch your favorite sports game, take a walk around your neighborhood, or take them out for a special meal.
Frame a silly photo.
Is there a photo of your dad that always makes you smile? Sometimes our identities get wrapped up in who we are to other people, and it’s easy to forget that our dads are people too! Find a favorite photo or video of dad that highlights his personality and share it with him. It is a beautiful expression of how much you love and cherish who he is.
Treat Dad to a special meal.
Food brings people together and is a beautiful way to show someone you love them. You can cook his favorite meal or make a reservation at your family’s favorite local spot. It doesn’t have to be fancy — if his favorite meal is wings and pizza, then have a casual dinner at home to celebrate!
Buy him a personalized gift.
Instead of running to the store at the last minute to buy a tie or socks for dad, take some extra time to find a personalized gift that will be remarkable. You can shop locally or explore online shops that have quirky, thoughtful gifts for dad.
Make it an event!
Think about your favorite memories with your dad and what you enjoy doing together and then plan to make new memories today! You can send him an invitation to mark the occasion and make it feel even more special.
If you are considering planning ahead, you may be wondering how you can get started. It’s easy. Find a local funeral home near you and schedule an appointment. Many funeral homes will allow you to learn about their preplanning options over the phone or via video chat free of charge. Once you’re ready to begin the process, give them a call or inquire about their services online. You can then explore your options at your own pace and consider what is important to you and how you would like to be remembered.
If you’re interested in planning with a ShareLife provider, please give us a call at (407) 710-6775 and we can help you get started with the process. And, if you are a first responder interested in funeral planning, call a local ShareLife provider to learn about our discounted packages to thank you for your service.